This Too Shall Pass
We are approaching the end of the first quarter of 2021! Can you believe how quickly this year is passing by? I know that for many this hasn’t been the most welcoming year, but it has been challenging for some of us along the way. I mean, if we were to have a perfect life, wouldn’t that be great? However, that is not the case. We live in a world where challenges will arise and we must be prepared to handle each and every one of them. If not, we will crumble at the face of adversity; every sing time! I am here to say that whatever you are facing—this too shall pass.
We don’t know what tomorrow will bring
but we can be certain that God will be with us in our tomorrow.
I’ve always had a heart for the singles and know the struggle that one goes through when you’re honoring God in your waiting season. I myself went through this season for quite some time and it takes prayer, will power and a whole lot of Holy Spirit to get you through this season. Today, I want to share a little bit of my heart with you. This is specifically for my singles, my married couples, and those of you who are parents.
Singles: I know you want that special person to spend the rest of your life with. It’s tough being lonely and it’s challenging being a “Godly single person.” It’s exhausting having to wait period! It doesn’t matter how spiritual you are, it’s still difficult. If you don’t tell Jesus to take the wheel while you get back to worshiping and working as you wait, you can easily fall for the first sweet talker that comes along whispering pretty things in your ear. God doesn’t want you to get desperate and settle for less. He has and wants only the best for you! Unfortunately, some people have to wait longer than others but it is in those moments, when you have to hold on to His Word and His promises and remind yourself that He is a Good Good Father who has reserved the very best for you. Hold on a little longer and replace that worry with worship. Embrace this season of single-hood because your life will change once you’re married. Single friends, this too shall pass. Trust the waiting process and most importantly, trust God because He knows what He is doing in your life. Worship while you wait. Give God thanks for your future husband or wife even though you have no idea where he/she is or will come from. Put your faith in action, begin to pray and bless your future spouse. Ladies, do you know how to cook and clean? Are you able to maintain a home? Can you budget? How do you administer your finances? Men, do you know how to fix things around the house? Do you have a stable job? Would you be able to provide for your future family? The point I am trying to make is this, it’s important to prepare yourself for who will walk into your life. Often time we have a laundry list of things we look for in a partner but are we meeting those requirements ourselves? Work while you wait for your Boaz. (Read the book of Ruth)
Married Couple: You’re married, yay! Welcome to marriage life, where the real work begins. This is the stage where you begin to grow deeper in your love and come to discover your spouse’s strengths and weaknesses. You also begin to dream and build a future together. The sky is the limit! Together you can conquer the world and there is no stopping you until…..
You hear the words: Infertility-You cannot have children, which was my case. You begin to see your world crumble down and all of the hopes and dreams you had as a family begin to shatter. I can personally speak from experience because I am still in this season; however, I know that this too shall pass. And if this is you too, take heart and do not dismay. It’s only a season and God is eternal; seasons pass but God always remains.
Many couples also face health issues and its in those moments where you have to go back to your vows and remember what you said “in sickness and in health”. If that is you, remember this too shall pass. Life is very unpredictable, we don’t know what tomorrow will bring but we can be certain that God will be with us in our tomorrow. Take refuge in Him because this too shall pass and it will strengthen you and your relationship.
Parents: Some are in a season of raising babies, single moms included. I know (well, I don’t know but I can imagine) how exhausting and rewarding that must be. I see my siblings with their young kids and these little ones are always full of energy. And to see that they get up every day to do what they do every single day is amazing! Mom, dad.. you’re amazing! Let's take a moment and applaud these heroes. (Seriously, clap.. they deserve it.) It’s like an eternal tiredness that doesn’t seem to fade away. I just want to encourage today that this too shall pass. The reward will super-exceed the sleepless nights. When you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, go back to my first point and remember that you are blessed. Your womb has been chosen to carry those precious babies of yours and many women, like myself would give anything to be in your position. Life will get easier, they say the nights are long but the years are short so savor and treasure those moments. Pat yourself in the back and give yourself some credit, you’re doing a great job. Remember to embrace this season of your life because your kids will grow up so fast and you will never get that time back again. Close your eyes and take a breather, this too shall pass.
No matter what stage in life you find yourself at, always look for the positive in a negative situation. There is always a lesson to be learned even in our greatest battles. Whether you’re single or married (divorce, single parent) remember that there are seasons in life and some will be harder and longer than others. However, never forget that seasons are temporary, they will pass. Don’t think you will be stuck in the same circumstances forever because you won’t. God knows how long you can bear a burden and He won’t put a load that you cannot carry. Matthew 11:28-30 says: Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Jesus doesn't want you to walk around heavy-laden, He wants you to rest in Him.
Embrace the season you’re in and learn from it. When it's time to move on, you’ll walk away with valuable life lessons that will carry you through into the next cycle of life. Always count your blessings no matter how chaotic your today may look. Why? Because there are people out there who are praying and desiring what your today looks like. It may be far from perfect, messy at times but there are so many great things hidden behind your mess that are waiting to be discovered.
Be Encourage, Be Blessed!
~landypf